Day 1

1 Timothy 1:10

for the sexually immoral, for those practicing homosexuality, for slave traders, liars, and perjurers ‘ and for whatever else is contrary to the sound doctrine.

God never created us to be similar in every way. Of course, a woman can get a degree just like a man can. Our differences are not academic. We must understand clearly that Genesis says, He made them male and female. That means we have gender differences made by God. And because you do not blame God for how He created you, my sister, be happy to be a woman. My brother, He never consulted you about creating you as a man, He made you a man, so accept it. Let that pride and acceptance show in how you talk and dress.

So, these men who are trying to dress like women, my friend, God created you as a man and you should not apologize about being a man. In fact, the word of God is saying do not dress like a woman. You should be proud to be a man. Yes, in clothing, you are not allowed to dress like a man, my sister. Be a woman and be happy to be a woman.

I have written a book on Spiritual Discipline. And one focus is gender. Being proud of your gender is a spiritual discipline. The moment you stop being happy about your gender, you will end up in homosexuality. This will lead you to a spiritual problem in your relationship with God. Again, be happy to be who you are. God never consulted you in determining what to make you.

Both Jesus in the New Testament and all the other scriptures approve no other sexual union except husband and wife, male and female. And that is clear throughout all Christian history. It is very important we understand that and keep it if we are Christians.

Some justify LGBTQ as a new cultural idea that human sexuality is all about intimacy and pleasure but not necessarily having babies. That is why a woman can say, “I will sleep with another woman.” But you will get pleasure, but can you get a child? God’s intention in sex is pleasure that can also produce children. So how can you end up with sex and you are not interested in making babies?

It is a new cultural idea to actually want sex, and you do not want children at any time. Do you want to kill the human race? The establishing of sexual relationships without any interest or openness to having babies is contrary to God’s intentions for sex.

Day 2

Colossians 3:8-10

But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator.

It is possible to be married, and God does not give you children. But you should intend to have children as you marry and leave whether you actually get them to God. That is the way to continue the human race.

Remember part of church growth is biological church growth. If Christians decides they will get married and they will not have children or they will allow homosexuality in church, Christianity will also die.

Have you heard what the Muslims are saying about France? They are saying, in few years the president of France will be a Muslim. And they are not going to fight! They are saying it will happen only biologically. Why? The white people are becoming homosexuals, therefore many of them are not bearing children. And those who are getting children, are getting only one.

That means for every 100 white people today, next generation they will be 50. So, they are reducing the white population by 50%. The Muslims from north Africa meanwhile are getting four wives with may be six children each. In 20 years, these Muslim babies are going to vote. Can you see a Muslim becoming president is not complicated?

Thus, also When Christians choose not to get children, Christianity will end. They are losing what I call opportunity for biological church growth. So as a Christian you must be interested in marriage, but you must include interest in children. And if you are interested in church growth you can see homosexuality will not play any role at all. You must obey God’s design for sexuality.

Let us agree sexual temptation is universal. But remember temptation is not the sin and I talked about it earlier that having an interest or being sexually attracted to another man is temptation but not a sin. The moment you realize it; you ask God to help you out of it and ensure you do not relate in that manner again. There is nothing wrong with that drive initially. Temptation is not sin. Scripture tells us Jesus was tempted. Himself was tempted in all ways yet he never sinned.

Day 3

Hebrews 4:15,

‘For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are ‘yet he did not sin.’

Sexual sin is when you give in to the desire which then is disobeying God.

Let us be clear, sex is something exclusive to only those who are married. But for married Christians, sex is exclusive to only one spouse. For single, unengaged, or even divorced Christians or widows where the spouse has died, you deal with sex by abstinence. No sex is allowed if you are not married.

Christians have long understood that God’s unfairness is not really a godly question. “It is not fair God! I have sex needs. Yet you are not giving me a husband. Surely it is not fair.” His commands remain and it is meant for our good. You know the moment you agree to be a Christian, you do what God wants. Upende usipende! Like it or not. That is why you cannot be driven by pleasure. You are driven by a desire to please your maker.

Sex is not a right. Sex is a gift. And there are many other gifts God gives some but not to everyone. Even going to the university is not a right. There are many young people who worked harder than you, but they did not get the C+ required. Am I right? So, you are here not as a right but as a gift from God. That is why you came to university. It is a gift of God.

Many things look unfair! You have to come to a place where you enjoy what God allows and thank Him for some things He put away from your ability to enjoy or to live with. And I think that will be important on the issue of sex.

Like we saw earlier when I talk about sexual perversion I am also talking about masturbation. What is masturbation? As we saw it is sex with yourself. It is wanting to enjoy sex before signing on the dotted line of marriage certificate. So, you have sex with yourself. In this instance you are not misusing others, you are actually misusing yourself. And obviously you know about the guy condemned in the Bible who tried to have sex with a woman, then poured his semen outside. He did not please the Lord.

Day 4

Romans 1:26-27,

‘Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.’

You need to understand masturbation is unbiblical. You cannot want to enjoy sex without a person of the opposite sex as God ordered. If you want to enjoy sex alone, which is masturbation, it leads to three problems.

Number one, the word of God is saying if you lust, you have already committed adultery. Masturbation is actually mental lust…thinking about sex. That is how you enjoy it because you are thinking about sex with a woman but doing it on yourself. So, the Bible will not allow it.
Number two, when you masturbate, you need to understand you harm your biological inclinations.
Number three, masturbation prepares you for destruction of your own marriage. You got used to masturbating as a girl and later you feel ‘this husband is bothering you, because you can enjoy sex without him!’ So, every time your husband says, ‘Is it tonight?’ ‘No!’ and you almost make a chorus of “NO.” You think you are going to heaven. Which heaven? Because you are replacing your husband with masturbation. And it all started when you were young.

You need to understand that all that is sexual perversion. You want sex? Get married. Masturbation is evil. And I have given you the reasoning.

Day 5

Romans 1:26-27,

‘Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.’

I have also told you clearly, homosexuality is sin. Let me repeat what we read earlier.

And earlier I also quoted Leviticus 18:22, “Do not have sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman; that is detestable.”

Yes, LGBTQ is an abomination according to the Bible. All of these verses are condemning homosexuality. It is a characteristic of a degraded man whom God has given up on.

Sex is only, I repeat, allowed with a member of the opposite gender… and only after a long-term commitment which we call a wedding.

In conclusion, to avoid immorality, first regard lustful thoughts in your mind as sin. Regard desire for a man to sleep with another man as a sin. When you regard it as sin in the mind, it will not happen in your body. And that is why it is important to understand the battle is lost and won in the mind. The moment you give in with your mind, you end up with pornography, then masturbation and that way you are preparing yourself for the real thing with even a prostitute.

You know Matthew 5 which I have been quoting says verse 27,

“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”

Note that the word of God is very clear, sin is not if you sleep with her, it is if you look at her with lust. If that happens, it is not that you have been tempted but you have already committed adultery.

Day 6

1 Peter 3:18

For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive in the Spirit.

That is why I am emphasizing that the moment you agree that sexual thought is evil, then pornography is sinful because it is imagining sleeping with a woman. If you conquer in the mind, you will end up having victory, and once you have victory in the mind, there is no way you end up with perverted sex.

Number two, please accept your biology. We saw that God created us to want sex. When you embrace a girl and your body temperature starts to rise, start by saying, “Thank you God! I am biologically normal.” Then stop the embrace. So, that is what you need to understand to avoid sexual immorality.

So, the moment you know you are normal, then you cannot allow a boy to start touching your shoulders and then he is now going lower and lower, unless you know you are not biologically okay, my sister. If you are biologically okay, the moment he touches you, you take his hands off. Tell him, “What are you trying to say? Let us talk. Your hands do not talk…the mouth does. Now just talk. Why are you doing that?”

Because even if the boy is not biologically okay, you are biologically okay. So, you cannot allow the boy to continue. So, that is the second thing.

Please know your biology, and once you know you are biologically okay, you will not end up there.

Many girls, including Christians, who end up getting pregnant’when you talk to them, they say they never expected it, but they mistook their biology. Somebody came to visit them after campus, getting to their house, and the house has three bedrooms. They say, “Why bother my neighbours? You are saved and I am also saved. And we are two of us in this three-bedroomed house. You sleep in another room.” They forgot that they are biologically okay. Somewhere around 3 AM biology worked.

So, you need to understand your biology. Are we together? It will help you to keep from sexual sin.

Day 7

Colossians 3:5

5 Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.

Number three, please never overestimate your ability to control lust. Oh, me am strong I can’t give in! lie! If you are biologically okay, you must run away from tempting situations. In fact, the word of God does not say run, it says flee from sexual lust.

That means the moment you see yourself in a place where you could be compromised, you do not wait to be compromised. Get that brother out of your house. It is getting 7 o’clock, he has not told you where he will sleep, there is no hotel nearby. How do you allow him to go beyond 6 o’clock in your house? If he does not want to sleep at your neighbour’s house throws him out. That is the only way to go to heaven.

Next, obey God’s commands fully without excuses. That is what we started with. The devil is always using doubts’¦ did God really say that? And the word of God must become your guide. If you truly want to know God, then the word of God must be obeyed. You must stop having the worldly word view. You must keep to the biblical word view. How do you get a biblical word view? By saturating yourself with God’s word. The Psalmist says, the word that I have hidden in my heart causes me not sin against God.

Put to death therefore whatever belongs to your earthly nature. That is what Colossian 3:5 is saying and Colossians 3:16 is saying the same. Put to death, kill the things that are causing you to want to sleep with a man or woman or with somebody of the same gender. Kill it.

Remember there is nothing like safe sex. So, the fact that you have condoms does not make it safe as we saw earlier. Even for HIV it’s not safe enough. But it will not be a way of protecting yourself from going to hell. Condom do not prevent you from going to hell.

To avoid sexual perversion, my prayer is that Lord will talk to you on Four things;

Number one, you must get born

Even if you are not sexually active, if you are not a Christian you will still go to hell. Why? Because of rejecting the blood of Jesus.

Number two, if you actually are born again and you are sexually active, and yet you have not been wedded by God who only can join you together, please call it sin. And I want before you finish reading this to tell the Lord, sorry. I do not want you to go to hell. You need forgiveness.

The good thing is that if you repent, God will forgive you. Once you have made that decision, whoever is your sexual partner, either homosexual or whatever, you must be ready to send him a text and say it is now over. You tell him it is now over for good. You are sold to Christ for life.

Even if it is your sponsor? Tell him, do not bother driving to my house. I am not available; the Lord has spoken to me. I am returning all your assets. I better go to heaven poor.

And finally seek to walk in righteousness even in other areas. Reading the word of God daily is critical. That is what we call spirituality discipline.

Discipline is what you do not because you enjoy doing it, but it is the right thing to do. That is why we call it discipline. Choose to be committed in the Lord in all ways and for life at whatever cost.

What do you hear the Lord telling you on this subject? I think before you finish reading this tell the Lord to just forgive you. And the good thing is that the Blood of Jesus is sufficient. It does not matter if you are homosexual or you are former Christian who has fallen or you are cohabiting, the type of sin it is irrelevant. The most important thing is to repent, for he died for all sins.

That is the message of letter of John 1:8 which is saying that if you refuse you have sinned you are trying to call God a liar. But if you confess your sins, he will then forgive you and cleanse you from all unrighteousness. That includes all homosexuality, it includes any sex that is perversion.