John N. N. Ng’ang’a

John N N Ng’ang’a Meditation of July 14th, 2025. Infidelity: Homosexuality

Jul 15, 2025

Day 1

Matthew 5:28

But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

The first chapter Of the Jewish and Christian Scripture, Genesis Tells us that humanity is uniquely created to show forth The image of God in the world so that To make visible, God’s invisible nature. So we need To understand that That the scripture Right from Genesis Condemns the issue of homosexuality.it distorts GODS IMAGE.

You know When you have the wrong view of sex you distort his creation.Or the view that sex is just for me to enjoy so I can do Whatever I like when enjoying is ditortion .he created and instructed how it is to be ued.It’s a new and culturally Peculiar idea that human sexuality Is only about intimacy and pleasure. He made for more.

His iam was that through sec thre bwould be Babies. It is Babies Production matter. You know their words.I want sex. I don’t want babies. But God’s idea is When you make sex and enjoy it You are going to produce A baby. Can you produce a baby in homosexual sex ? No.

So if you want to enjoy sex without producing A baby you are off. But to be in line with nature you will have to get out of Homosexuality. But God’s way Is that you have sex so Both have Pleasure and babies . And you cannot take one And actually ignore The other. It will not be right.

It’s a new And culturally peculiar idea to believe That human sexuality is only about intimacy. To establish A sexual relationship without Any interest in or openness to Babies is contrary to God’s Intention for such relationship. It was the first command God gave to the first two humans To come together Bring forth the coming of Generations of his divine Image.He said to them: Go and feel The earth. It’s a command. We are supposed to reproduce Ourselves. If we become Homosexuals, that’s the end of the human race. Am I right?

Day 2

Proverbs 6:25

Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes.

So how could you agree On something to exterminate the human race? How can you give people freedom To kill themselves? Do you know that if you try to commit suicide and you are caught Attempting it, they will take you to jail.

You are not allowed to hurt your self . You are not allowed to kill your self. You cannot Enter into a system That exterminates the population of the earth.

Because if I and my wife Have produced three children If the three children became Homosexuals, that’s the end of our generation. Am I right? And it not Complicated. Yes , understand Sex was supposed to be One way of leading you To reproduce yourself.

Temptation to disobey God’s Design in sexuality is wrong. but while temptation to sin Is universal, this one is strange. Scripture in Hebrew chapter 4 Verse 15’…tells us that Jesus was tempted in all ways, just as we are Yet without sin.

You cannot prevent temptation but you can refuse to give in to Sexual sin. Giving in to that desire In either mind or body is sin. So we are not suggesting That homosexuals are sinful but Heterosexuals are the righteous. Even among heterosexuals thre are siiners and one sin is not worse than the other .You are not a homosexual But you are still going to hell. Sexual morality and then homosexuality Are two different sins.

So if you not homosexual And yet Being immoral, you are sinner.both of you will meet in hell. Hell will not have two temperatures For homosexuals and other immoral people.

So you need to be clear that Even if you are not homosexual If you are sexually active before the wedding You are as bad as Homosexual. It’s in the same, Category of sin. Why? Because according to The scriptures, sex must be Between a man and a woman in a marriage.sex must be exclusive.

Day 3

2 Peter 2:18

For they mouth empty, boastful words and, by appealing to the lustful desires of the flesh, they entice people who are just escaping from those who live in error.

If you pick a man for marriage then That’s the only man you’ll ever have sex with until his death. Sin in marriage of Christians Sex must remain exclusive To one’s spouse. For single Engaged Or even people who have separated themselves From their husband It must be sex abstinence.You must remain without sex Until You reconnect with your husband Or wife. Sex is not right for you.

Reemeber You don’t have to have sex. So if your husband has run away from you abastain . I told you earlier, sex is not like Oxygen that you must have it.

So you cannot say, I must have sex And the only person available currently is this other man. No. it is not fair given your desires but Christians have long known that fairness is not really The question. Why?Sex is not a right, but a gift. And the giver knows what is best for us.

So if the Lord has not Provided a husband Remain without sex. You can still be a happy girl Without sex Until the Lord gives you a husband. So let’s not stand here Just condemning homosexuals As if the list of sinners had only Homosexuals.

It’s much wider than that.

Let me give you another sin on the list. Masturbation. You don’t want to be homosexual. But you want to have sex with Yourself.That’s called masturbation. It is Enjoying sex without Needing to commit yourself To the opposite gender. And you argue that because the opposite gender is so difficult get ..Why not enjoy sex Without bothering anybody? In this instance You are not misusing others .You are actually misusing Yourself.

And obviously you know a guy Condemned in the Bible Who tried to have sex with a woman But poured away Semen because he didn’t want her To get pregnant. So you need to understand pouring semen outside is wrong .masturbation is When you enjoy sex by manipulating your self .

In masturbation you have been tempted To be immoral? Have you just been tempted?No. You have actually become Immoral. For you cannot do masturbation Without thinking about sex. And thinking about sex Is what’s being called lust and immoral.So masturbation Clearly Is involving the mind.

Day 4

Job 31:1

‘I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman.

So You need to understand that If you are involved in masturbation You are as sinful as the homosexual . If you try to find a woman To sleep with before marriage you are equally sinful. In order to avoid all these sexual immoralities, all of them, including homosexuality, you must regard lust as a sin. The trouble with the current generation, they think it’s okay to lust as long as thre was no penetrative sex.

And that’s where pornography comes in. What is pornography? Pornography is enjoying sex with a picture. You see a naked girl or watching people doing sex, and as they are feeling nice themselves’… you also feel.

Bottom line is if you are thinking about sex, and you are not having that sex with your husband, whom you are wedded with..You are having it with a picture’… That’s sinful pornography. And that’s why pornography is sin. Although, in pornography, nobody suffers. After all, it’s just a picture. But You finally suffer yourself. Because they feel like sex is more enjoyable with a picture than with a real wife. So the wife aks, what’s wrong? You cheat I’m I’m sick.

She ask Why have you not been having sex for the last two months? In the meanwhile, you have been hiding in the closet, to have sex with us? So we need to understand, it is wrong. But it’s not just the fact that it will send to hell..it is bad socially. One must not be involved in pornography. You must say no. Totally no. To the issue of lust.

Day 5

1 John 2:16

For everything in the world ‘ the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life ‘ comes not from the Father but from the world.

You must regard lusting as sin, same as engaging in sex before marriage, or outside marriage. In other words, there is no difference between the two. So, understand sexual sin, in the New Testament, is lust.remember also , please do not ignore your biology. And we have talked about that. In other words, do not think of your self too highyly’… I’m able to handle sexual teempataion.

By the way, can we be clear? Being sexually attracted to another man, is a temptation, not a sin. Just like the first look of a girl, when she appears in a dress, and you feel attracted, it’s still not a terrible sin. The second look is the sin. It’s not the first look. You cannot avoid the first look, but you can avoid the second?So if, for example, a picture with a naked woman appears in your phone, , and you didn’t look for it, first sight is not a sin.those things happen.That’s not the problem.

The problem is, what did I do after that? That second look is a sin. So you need to understand that. Thus it’s important to understand that you must not ignore your biology.

If you go for the second look, you start enjoying the look. The first one, you didn’t even see properly. The second one, you start enjoying which is lust. Never overestimate your ability to control your self .You must regard yourself as havaig seinned . If your biology is okay, never overestimate your ability to control yourself. Obey God’s command fully, and have no excuses. The Word of God must become your guide. That’s why you need to read the Word of God daily.

So , you saturate your mind with God’s Word. Psalm 105 is saying,

Thy Word have I hidden in my heart.

How is it completed?

So that I don’t sin against you.

So if you don’t want to end up in homosexuality, and other sexual immorality , just saturate your mind with God’s Word.

Put it differently. Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to other nature. Anything that is tempting you must be dealt with. it may mean you change jobs. It may mean you change your residence.It may mean you look for a way of avoiding the place where the temptation is coming in.

Individuals born with both male and female biological characteristics are described as intersex. So these are people who are born with both the male organs and the female organs. That’s what’s the problem. You can’t blame them. Because that’s the way they are, born.homosexaul choose o give in to the tempataion .But not bisexauls.but stillthey must decide you’re not immoral.

And to get married, you must not mislead the other person. You must come openly to a person and say, I have both sex organs . But I am more of a man. Sister ,We can get married, if you accept me as man. You can’t hold bisexual accountable for their condition.

Day 6

Job 33:20

so that their body finds food repulsive and their soul loathes the choicest meal

what about Trans people? individuals whose gender identity differs from the sex they were assigned at birth, and who desire to transition to align their body with their gender identity, a man might want to a woman. God does not allws you to change your genber after birth. So ask for help to accept your birth genvder.

The fact that despite being a woman you feel like a man is simply a temptaion. There are many things which you are doing, but you don’t enjoy them. You are passing a restuarant you are very hungry, , you feel like stealing’…but you don’t . Don’t you feel like that at times? But you are justified, for you are hungry.being human enables to pass on despite the hinger.

Now that you have accepted the sin, cry to God for forgiveness. detach yourself from the wrong community and its practices. Don’t block just the phone, block everybody.

What about bisexuals? Bisexuality is a sexual orientation where individuals are attracted to more than one gender .one of our frinds said she checked the husbands phone and discovered that he is having sex with another man. Thye toe have children.So, the man denies it because they are bad with the truth.

And it should be understood that any sin ..even homosexuality is sure to be forgiven once repented . the blood of Jesus is adequate for all sins.once you call it wrong, you must say also say no to that community. Block them. In fact, I was telling them, the wife must be allowed to block them.

This is because you are weak. Let your wife block all of them from your phone. So, they cannot reach you and you cannot hear. There is no way you say you have repented, yet you are entertaining the same people.

Now, let’s come to the reaction of you as a Christian.You must help the person. Now, step number one. Once you know somebody is having wrong sex, help them with this biblical message. Concerning evil. It is you to help them’…. Not just shun him.

Because until he sees what is evil in it, you are going nowhere. Number two. Once heaccepts it is evil, give him hope. the blood of Jesus,has power. And he will be forgiven. According to Psalm 103, Jesus takes away our sins as far as east is from west.

In fact, he did wrong. So, the fact he had done for five years is nothing to God. You are certainly forgiven. Okay. Be willing to help him to see the hope there is in Christ. Once he sees the hope, then you will be willing to repent and change. And then you, you have to walk with him for some time. If he moves away from you ,you might loose him. A part of your question?

Day 7

Proverbs 8:10

Choose my instruction instead of silver, knowledge rather than choice gold,

Some argue ,What is wrong with my choice of sexual orietaion? There is a lot of rationalisation in religion. You don’t need to pray to God every day others argue. At times by the time you discover who your gitl is biologically it very dificult to be ratational. Girl comes for you. They prepare you marriage . They are nice. But then we discover all the wrongs biologically .

And you can tell a strane man because they hold you in an appropriate way. You are a man. Why would he be like that? He is only giving you notice. He is testing whether you will enjoy it. If you enjoy it, he will ppush on.but please respect yourself.insist on no one breaching your boundaries.And for some reason, some people are not able to do this.

At times boundaries are broken because they have the money. But why do homsexul want publiic to know a veery private matter? Because they want to win more to ther way of life.The public needs to know.

You must not allow yourself to go that way. It is true you might be tempted. It is true you feel you like another woman. But you must fight the feeling. The devil is it.

So you fight it at that level. So you don’t go that direction. Now once you have defeated the tempataion keep iff that comapmny. don’t go that direction. Now you use the information to help others not to go that direction.

May the lord help you. how easy it is to say these words. But for somebody emotionally attached to another person of their own gender, it is not a small matter.

May the Lord go with every one of those who read this.if they need it show them thre is deliverance in Jesus Christ, that He died in order to rescue them. May that be true of every reader. Everywhere we go, we become instruments of His love to the homosexuals.

Yes , May we love them without loving their sin. The Lord bless you.